Do any young girls not shave your area?

I stopped shaving after years of never letting hair grow and its weird. I have let it grow in for my bf since thats what he likes.. That though of a natural woman turns him on... Anyways I have a hard time feeling sexy.. Im bi and weve been talking about threesomes and part of me really wants to but the other part keeps thinking but u have hair! Ive mentioned to my bf that I would trim up if we ever did and he said "why r u caring to be sexy for someone else" im stuck between how I feel about it and keeping him happy. I know its my body but **** I dont know what to do or how to feel about it.