Friday, August 12, 2011
"Best Friend" Problems Need Help?
so ive known this dude since the first grade and we've been through a lot together. ive considered this guy my best friend and hes considered me his best friend for as long as we can remember. i know his family well and he knows my family well. we've been great friends but then ever since high school started, i wanna knock this dude the f * ck out. first off, this dude thinks hes some hot sh i t and when he be doing something, he asks if i did the same thing, and talks down to me about it. for example, the other day he hooked up with this chick, so im like aiight then thats some good s h it right there, then he asks me about me and my relations with girls and starts giving me this tone and this look as if i get none, yo my dude, yo dont even get me started on that cuz id score more than this dude for real, but yeah thats not even the main problem. ive been there for this dude in times of sorrow, anger, and all of the above. ive had this guys back so many times, theres been times where some dudes tried to jump his a s s and who backed him up? guess who. exactly. so then theres this other dude ive been having problems with and my supposed best friend is chill with this guy and i dont have a problem with that. now what i do have a problem with is that when my best friend is with me, he act like he aint even like this other dude one bit, then im like aiight about it i dont really care it aint even my business, so then he act like he hate the dude, the next day i see him talking to him as if they about to mate or something. the he11 is that about ? and another thing i hate is how this dude can tell me about how he be hating some dude so much, but then the next day he could act like he love that dude. another problem i have is that the dude always calls me his best friend and we havent talked for about 4 months. we havent chilled for 4 months either. so the last time i talked to him i asked him to chill twice and he skeemed on me both times, saying that he would get back to me on it, then it was one excuse after another. yo so at that point i was fed up cuz i knew he was talking some bu11shi t calling me his best friend yet he aint never dial me up or nothing, not even to chill or nothing. i think this dude takes my friend ship for granted. i dont even know what happened yo we used to be so close. not a day goes by that i dont wanna fix this friendship but at the same time im just so pissed off at this dude skeeming on me then bs-ing me. so lately we've started talking to each other but sometimes i still feel like hes talking some bu11shi t. any advice on what i can do? weve been close friends i dont really know what happened lately
So my mom found out i was gay!?
i am a 19 year old female and im bisexual. its been confusing figuring that out and labeling myselfe as that. it hasnt been too hard to come out with friends because of the era im in where people are more open minded about things like this. but i have always been pulled back when it came to my family. weve never really had that picture perfect family due to some alcoholism in the family (not getting into specifics). point being i moved out when i was 16 and cut all ties with my family except for my younger brothers. we didnt talk up until this year when my mother had a change of heart about having me "part of her family". i was reluctant at first due to resentment i had built up towards them from the past. but we have been getting alot closer and though its not quite the best i think its as good as itll ever be. now to my issue..a couple days ago i was out with a female and well we got kinda touchy. to my suprise my mother bursts out yelling no! your not doing this here no! in my defense it was really late and i thought she was asleep. my mother isnt very gay friendly so immediately she let me know her disaproval. she called me disgusting and hasnt talked to me since. she wouldnt tell my dad so when hes around she acts like everythings okay but she cant even look at me in the eye:( after so many years of not really having my mother around and now that we were getting so close it seems like its back to square one and once again im the black sheep. i can understand the shock of finding her daughter borderline having sex and more so with another female. i dont know how to fix this and its really breaking my heart to see her react this way. i never been so ashamed of what i am till now and its horrible having her make me feel so low again. she doesnt seem like shes going to let this go anytime soon and its been a week! anyone have any helpful advice? weve never had a heart to heart kinda conversation and its so uncomfartable and embarrassing that this might have to be it..
How famous are the Osbournes now on a scale of 1 to 10?
With regard to England and America. The Osbournes reality show finished about 5 years ago! I used to love the show and fell in love with Kelly and had a huge crush on her and still kinda do! Ozzy was so funny, Jack was cool and Sharon was like the ideal mother in my eyes, I was 11 to 14 then! Only in the last couple of weeks I was thinking whatever happened to the Osbournes? I wish they'd bring their TV show back! So I followed them on Twitter and found out that Sharon is a host on The Talk on American TV station CBS and she is a judge for America's Got Talent, Jack has made a documentary film called God Bless Ozzy Osbourne about his father, Kelly is a model for Madonna's Material Girl range and she is a host on E!'s Fashion Police, and Ozzy has just finished an American tour and is about to start a European one, he wrote a biography called I Am Ozzy! oh and Kelly us really slim with lushess long blonde locks! Ozzy and Sharon live in a hidden hills mansion in LA, Kelly lives in an apartment in LA and I don't know where Jack lives? They also have their original home in Buckinghamshire, and Kelly has another apartment in London! So how famous are they now from a scale of 1 to 10! Will they ever come back to England permanently do you think? And what can they do to get back in the spotlight? I also loved Sharon on x factor, her and Louis were funny on it! And when is the Ozzy doc film coming out?
I think i love her...need guidence!?!?
What do you mean you 'don't know what to do', she's obviously into you and you into her so go out with her, if you break up, it's like having an ex at school, you get used to it. So go get her god dammit!!
How do i waste time/make it go by faster?
Drug and alcohol binges always do the trick for me. The screwy sleep patterns that come with them will only help to pass the time, and the misadventures you may find yourself in might help you find a new obsession.
Have you ever seen a positive segment on any Conservative or Republican on the big networks?
Considering all Republicans want to do is pass a conservative social agenda while giving tax breaks to the most privileged at the expense of the less fortunate, no it doesn't seem odd at all.
Teaching child about bullying?
I would like to teach/show my daughter about the effects that bullying has on other children. I was bullied as a child and would like to enforce how important it is to stand up for other children who might be going through the same thing. Does anyone know of any programs or seminars (such as someone coming to talk about bullying) ? I want her to really take into account how much it can hurt people by actually showing her instead of always talking about it. If anyone knows of any place in the Akron/Canton/Cleveland area of Ohio that would be wonderful! Thank you!
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